*shakes head*

Girls it makes me sad to see so many of you sitting around complainging about how guys don't notice you instead of just going out there and getting some guy yourself. I know that isn't exactly the ideal thing but perhaps you all need to be a bit proactive in your own lives with that? Now I am NOT saying you need to just walk up to some guy you like and kiss him or anything....ALTHOUGH that would be pretty awesome to see start happening!!!!!
What I am saying is don't stand in the rain and than complain that you are getting soaked. It doesn't work like that. You have to be SMART about life and about guys. Don't read into signs with your girls, don't sit around mulling over every little thing he does like...breathing in your direction does NOT mean he likes you!!!!!!! If you want to know how a guy feels just go and ask him!!! *GASP* Do what?! Yeah that's right ASK THE BOY!!!! Now some guys may not like that but I have found that a lot of guys will be refreshingly honest about their opinions and feelings....honestly I think it was the fact that someone asked them about it hahaha. I did get a lot more dates after I started asking guys about how they felt so who knows?! That could be the key we ladies have been missing all along. Usually we sit around with our friends trying to analyze what on Earth the guy could be thinking to the point where anything and everything he does is some kind of sign.
...Really now asking you where the bathrooms are is NOT some huge massive sign saying "I LIKE YOU!!!!"

Just ask...oh and guys that read this blog...if you like a girl tell her because the chances are that she already is trying to figure out if you like her. Another things that gets me is when guys ask a girl out on a date over TEXT!!!!!!!!!! What the fetch?!!!! You don't ask someone out over text and you definitely do not break up with someone over text. Have the balls to do it in person or at the very least over the phone! Girls that goes for you too! People have generally lost the art of communicating and it has lead to so many misunderstandings in relationships. If Derek hadn't have asked me out in person and even told me how he felt in person without shaving some weird motive to make out I probably wouldn't have told him I was interested. Really I do understand it is unnerving to share with another person your own personal feelings, but think of the blessings that can come from it! One the one hand you face PAINFUL AGONIZING REJECTION that lets you pick yourself up and move on to someone even better (hopefully) and on the other hand you could end up meeting Mr. (or Mrs.) Forever!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Now tell me what is so wrong with that???

Loves and Fluffs,
Jess