1. I am feeling naseous (Morning sickness at night...go figure)
2. Nikki drives like a freaking Gremlin when she is mad
3. I am now ADDICTED to blogging *thanks Nikki you are such a pal*
So I thought I would share how NOT envious I am of all you single people out there. I remember being in the dating scene before I met Derek and let me tell you it was no piece of cake. I mean it wasn't like I didn't go on dates...in fact I constantly had guys drooling over me which of course didn't get me many girlfriends to hang out with. Luckily for me I made friends with girls who aren't the jealous type! I have been called attractive and beautiful by many, but honestly I am glad to be married and out of that meat market. Seriously how many RMs can one girl take before she decides not to deal with them?!
Guys you can be a little overzealous on trying to find your "Mrs. Forever" and you tend to creep the girls out. OH and another thing...back off the girls who are waiting for a guy...obviously if they had been interested they wouldn't be waiting for that guy...they would be mooning over you. While I am at it DON'T make a girl think you are wanting something serious when you have no intentions of actually going down any path remotely resembling serious. I had this guy tell my entire family he was going to marry me and that he really wanted to seriously pursue me, yeah he is now married to an entirely different person. YAY for them, but at the time it really hurt that he would do something like that.
Now to mine and Derek's story (since I AM married to the guy and all that)...well we met through some friends at a game night and at first I really didn't have any interest in him other than he was a good friend, but after spending time with him and talking to Nikki and my Mom about him I realized I had been letting my past failed relationships ruin any chance a guy had with me. I opened my heart up slowly to him after that and would you know it I fell in love! He told me one night how he felt and that pretty much sealed the deal (pardon the pun) for me. He is so kind and romantic and he spoils me rotten even though he really doesn't have to. When he proposed he had it all worked out with dinner and a carriage ride at Temple Square...complete with a secret photographer capturing the proposal moment...of course one of my brothers ruined the secret part when he yelled out "SAY NO!" XD It was a magical moment. A few months later we got married and now here we are expecting out first child just a few months after our wedding! Talk about AWESOME!
I guess the point of what my story is that no one should lose hope because love is out there and it can happen to anyone and everyone!
Loves and Fluffs,
Jess
1 comment:
I can't wait for this!! :)
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